Neglect seems almost benign.
So why talk about it?
You may have experienced neglect as a child, even if your parents were doing their best.
Your parents had to travel a lot for work, and so you didn’t get to see them as often as you wanted. Recitals, big games, or birthdays were normally missed.
Maybe your parents were physically present, but they weren’t emotionally present. This made you feel like you weren’t very important or deserving of attention and love.
Certain conditions arise from childhood neglect.
Trouble holding healthy boundaries with others; feeling out of balance in your relationships.
Difficulty getting what you want from your relationships.
Codependence.
Fear of intimacy and lack of trust.
Physical symptoms can even arise in some situations.
Childhood neglect leaves scars that others may not see.
There are many times when clients declare they were not sexually or physically abused.
And yet, they’re still suffering and struggle to feel heard by their family, friends or employer.
I have a sensitive approach to neglect, especially with my clients who experienced neglect as children.
I’m keenly aware of the compassion my clients have for a parent.
And just as keenly aware of the toll that an inattentive parent has on the development of a child.
In my work with you, I’ll go at your pace. I want to help you to understand that you’re important and that you can experience more joy in your relationships.
I invite you to call me for a free 15-minute phone consultation. We can talk about how I can help.
Don’t let the hurt of past neglect keep you from moving toward the life you want to live. Call me today, (602) 899-9492.